A three‑part ONLINE journey to soften, sense, and reclaim vulva pleasure through slow, guided self‑touch in community.
Welcome to the Awakening Pleasure Series
In many bodies, pleasure and pain have become over‑coupled – layers of tension, emotion, and unspoken stories sit between sensation and satisfaction. Across three monthly evenings we will gently unwind those layers through online guided self de‑armouring and somatic boundary work.
Come to one session that calls you, or weave the full arc for deeper integration. Each workshop stands alone yet can be seen as an extension of the previous.
AWAKENING PLEASURE: A Journey of Clitoral Awakening – 22/Sept
AWAKENING PLEASURE: A Path of Inner Mapping – 17/Nov
Often in life we have to rush so much, and it’s only when we slow down that we begin to feel the discomfort. In these gatherings we intentionally move at the pace of the body, meeting any unease that arises. The aim is to reconnect with the vulva (one focused theme at a time) through slow presence and plenty of space.
Online Session 3 – Inner Mapping (Internal vagina)
Do deeper sensations inside your vagina feel muted, unfamiliar, or overwhelming? Does internal pleasure feel like uncharted territory?
This session focuses on …
Full‑body presence inside the vagina. Through slow, curious touch we map internal landscapes, melt deeper fascial armour, awaken hidden pleasure zones, and integrate the whole vulva‑pelvic system.
PRACTICALITIES
WHAT TO EXPECT
Key Benefits: Heightened internal sensitivity, release of deep tension, and an integrated pelvic floor capable of expanded pleasure waves.
Hands‑On Exploration: Step‑by‑step internal de-armouring using fingers or an optional glass wand, supported by breath and sound.
Group Resonance: Journey alongside peers, being witnessed and held in a brave, non‑judgemental space.
WHO IS THIS FOR
Vulva owners ready to explore sensuality and sensitivity in an online setting. You feel at ease practising self‑touch and can self‑regulate emotionally; the facilitator will guide you through the process with invitation, but this is a self‑development space, not therapy.
No experience in de-armouring required.
Health & Safety – Participation is not suitable if you are pregnant, have active infections or outbreaks, severe unresolved psychological trauma, psychosis, or serious physical illness. When in doubt, reach out.
HOW TO DRESS FOR THIS SESSION
Wear something comfortable that makes you feel safe and/or sensual.
If you’d prefer extra coverage, a dress or skirt that allows easy access without exposing too much is recommended.
WHAT TO PREPARE
Body‑friendly oil or lube to enhance your experience.
Water bottle.
Towels or blankets (e.g., sheep skin, sarong, fleece blanket, yoga mat) to create your intentional, cozy space to lay on. You might want to bring an extra blanket to cover yourself with if you wish to be (partially) naked.
Feel free to prepare a journal & pen.
Optional: Glass wand or dildo to aid precise mapping and de‑armouring.
EVENT DETAILS
Date & Time: Monday, 10 November | 19:00 - 21:30
The session will run until 21:00, with an additional 30-minute extension if needed, to fully align with the group's energy and needs.
Location: This event will be held online via Zoom. After completing your registration, the meeting link will be sent to you directly.
TICKET INFORMATION
Single Session: €49
Bundle Offer: Save 20% by booking all three sessions for just €115. Click here.
Please note: All tickets are non-refundable and are for personal use only.
WHAT’S INCLUDED: Your ticket grants you access to a live guided online self-de-armouring session. Within 48 hours, you'll receive a link via WeTransfer or otherwise from info@ankevanmullem.com to download the practice materials, which you can save and explore at your own pace again.
Extra Note:
If you're in Copenhagen, Denmark, you're also welcome to join me for the live version of this session, which I will be hosting in collaboration with House of Play. Let me know if you're interested, and I’ll provide more details!
Your facilitator
Anke Van Mullem (she/her)
Anke is a Holistic Intimacy & Relationship Coach and the founder of Soul’n Soma. With years of hands‑on experience and a deeply personal healing journey, she’s passionate about helping individuals and couples build authentic, meaningful connections. Drawing from the wisdom of ancient Tantra and Taoism, alongside modern mindfulness and body‑based practices, Anke creates a warm, safe space for exploration, healing, and growth. Empowering women and people with vulvas is at the heart of her work, particularly through her transformative Jade Egg practice and guided self‑de‑armouring.