Holistic Intimacy & Relationship Coaching for individuals and couples
For people who long for more connection, more honesty, more pleasure, and a way of getting there that feels grounded in the body.
Whether you’re navigating conflict, disconnection, shame, desire, boundaries, or body-based shutdown, I offer warm, grounded support through coaching, embodiment, nervous system awareness, and real conversation.
There are different ways to work with me
Some people come because they feel stuck in painful patterns.
Some come because intimacy feels distant, confusing, or hard to speak about.
Some want to reconnect with pleasure, boundaries, and their body.
And some want support before things become a crisis.
My work is here for all of that – with space for both conversation and the deeper body-based patterns underneath it.
Couples Coaching
For couples who want more connection, clearer communication, and grounded support through conflict, disconnection, or intimacy struggles
You may love each other and still feel stuck. Maybe you keep circling around the same patterns, or maybe things are not in crisis, but you know your relationship needs more care, support, and honest attention.
This work helps couples understand their patterns, rebuild connection, and create more honesty, safety, and relational grounding.
1:1 Intimacy Coaching
For people who want a deeper, safer, more connected relationship with intimacy, desire, boundaries, and themselves
You may feel disconnected from your body, unsure of what you want, caught in shame or people-pleasing, or simply ready for a more honest and embodied way of relating.
Together, we create space for more clarity, more self-trust, and a more alive connection with yourself, intimacy, and others.
Jade Egg Coaching
For women and people with vulvas who want a grounded, consent-based path into pelvic awareness, pleasure, boundaries, and embodied connection
This is a more specific doorway within my 1:1 work. It can include Jade Egg practices, de-armouring, and nervous-system-aware support for people who want to reconnect with sensation, soften tension or shutdown, and awaken pleasure in a way that feels safe, supported and real.
My approach
I don’t believe intimacy changes through insight alone.
Talking matters. Language matters. Understanding matters.
And often, real change also asks for something slower and more embodied.
That is why my work weaves together conversation with body awareness, nervous system sensitivity, mindfulness, intimacy coaching, and trauma-aware pacing where needed.
I’m not here to pretend I have all the answers.
But I do know how to help people come home to themselves and each other in a way that feels grounded, honest, and alive.
And yes – I care deeply about awakening pleasure, in all the forms it wants to take.
Meet Anke
I’m Anke Van Mullem, a Holistic Intimacy & Relationship Coach.
I support individuals and couples who want more connection, safer intimacy, clearer boundaries, deeper honesty, and more aliveness in the way they relate.
My work is shaped by coaching, embodiment, intimacy education, and a deep trust in the body’s wisdom. I bring warmth, honesty, and grounded presence to the places where people often feel most vulnerable.
Client experiences
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“Anke held me so safely in her container and I felt heard, seen and understood.”
— Charlotta, 1:1 coaching client
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“Anke provided a safe, warm and open space to show up and completely be myself in.”
— Amy, 1:1 coaching client
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“Working with Anke has been truly beautiful for us, both individually and as a couple.”
—Jess & Sam, Couple clients
